Keep your foes closer than friends; true or false?

Let's reason together a bit. Are you having lots of problems with decision making and how to live freely and happily ? Have you check the numbers of friends you have kept in life and who you had been in their respective time of stay in your life.

If you haven't then you might have been having a serious problems. How?.
Do you know in life that your popularity and well doing is not defined by the number of friends you have? Rather your closeness with yourself.

So many people are busy making friends here and there and forgetting a lot of ways of relating with themselves thereby not knowing themselves even enough to know the potentials in them. You need time to stay by yourself and search the best love from within you for yourself. Those love will spur out a talent you never would have discovered in the midst of your multitude of friends.

For you to be a great achiever you don't need those crowd you sit and while away time. Lots of friends prone you to lots of ideas and you will be stunned with trying to make a pick of which idea may be useful at the end of the day duress may make you have the wrong pick. When you should have studied yourself and know what best can prodwr solutions to your problems.

Keeping friends is not a bad idea but in your keeping
***choose those who share sane ideas with you
***those who can add positively to you not make you deviate from your dreams
***those who can stand bold and telling you your wrongs, short comings and attitudes.

To succeed with friends make your friends few, listen more too your foes, they are always there to enhance you with their criticism than those friends who aren't better than foes. They indirectly tell you there next plans with their spite and bickering which make you go ahead to block them. Friends shouldn't be fought for one Jonathan to David was worth more than 10 Absalom.

Learn to stay by yourself you need lot of time to know who you are because it will give you the real chance of who and when to relate. Everyone needs a friend but not everyone had a good friend but the beat friend you can have is yourself.