Forgiveness

Forgiveness, Word attached with giving and yet had to be offered. To many is so unnecessary that it should be. Those who understood its principle knows that it is of benefit to the forgiver than the offender or offended. 

To forgive is relieving one of the burden they would be bearing. Though because of self satisfaction, it is easily said than practice. It is not evil to quarrel and disagree, but it becomes evil when such fights become rooted in the heart that will can't ease them away.

Fighting and quarrelling should be to understand one another and amend those things that can't prospect further troubles and when we misunderstand, there is need to forgive our various misconstruction and move on.

But today ego if not pride has ruined the act of forgiveness in our lives because we don't want to be seen as the weakly. Someone will say; "How can I be the first to apologise, when he offended me first?"...
But come to think of it, we actually need it more than we can imagine. 

Malice, hatred and fightings are burden which are cumbersome yet so sensitive. Sensitive in the way that we only can ease ourselves that burden. For those who believe in God, the bible said we should forgive 70 x 80, have you forgiven even 5 x 5?, so what is your excuse?. 

Everyday you offend God deliberately and indeliberate and you kneel begging for forgiveness. Sometimes you believe you have been forgiven even when you are not, then why can't you forgive others, since you know how important it is?. Why can't you forgive with ease if you believe God does same?.

Remember God said we are "a god" so if God forgive his likes should, or have you also forgotten that you are created in his image and after his likeness?.

When we forgive we live peacefully and more than we thought our pride and who we are areboosted. Forgive and just let go.